Wednesday, May 05, 2010
I don't get why people like to compare their situation with others. You chose to get yourself into that situation. So quit whining, suck it up, and get on with it. I got myself into this unfamiliar position last year with hockey. Trainings were tough, long, and rather irritating at times. It didn't bother me. I sucked it up, and went on with life. I didn't turn my back or give anyone the cold shoulder. I tried to be as accommodating as possible. It was a challenged I posed myself. And well I got my just rewards, in the end.
So, point here is, this is no communist state. Whatever shit you are in, it's mostly 'cos of you that you are in that predicament. Don't extend the shit you have to others, even if you don't know you are doing it unknowingly. It's okay to share your troubles through conversation. But please don't be selective.
And I don't see how one can complain about their predicament. When, prior to and even after the important parts of the day, you seem to be all fine and okay. Then when it comes down to the hard parts, you crumble.
I know some people are more important than others. Popularity is what matters nowadays. Yes I know. But I do know one other thing. It's the popular ones who couldn't care less.
my thoughts at 6:42 pm